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What I really don't understand about you...

What I really don't understand about you is, how hypocritical you are.  "You don't pay enough attention to me!"  No, sir, I do pay attention to you.  It is that you are so wrapped up in video games and hanging out with your friends--you don't notice, 90% of the time that I'm trying to pay attention to you.  It is like you get bothered by me when I try to pay attention to you or interact with you in anyway.  For any male followers I might have:  Why do some guys do this?  I don't know, this may be a stupid question, because I know not all guys are like that--but I'm really trying to understand...  :c  I don't get my fiance at all these days...  When I first met him, he was so charming and sweet.  After five or six months hit, he just got too comfortable, like he thinks I won't leave him...  I don't care how LONG I have been with some one, if they treat me like dirt, I'm going to leave them.  I don't know what to do to get this across to him, but all day he has been in this crabby mood.  As well as yesterday and the day before...  :/  He's really starting to upset me.

2 comments:

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If at anytime either of you are distressed, angered or in a corner, it's the other that should be there to ease the trouble, not be the reason for it.

He's crabby and you're upset, I think that maybe you guys should look into each others perspectives and see what can be appropriately done.

I know this is likely the most cliche and blunt bit of advice (and it's just a suggestion), but don't try to get it through to him. Sit him down, and out-right tell him. Have a private uninterrupted one-to-one and make sure he understands that everything you're saying is serious.

Anyway, that's really all I can say.


P.S.: Your blog is looking PHENOMENAL! Really love the look.

gingersoaplovin said...

Thanks, man! I did that last night and it went nicely. :D He's been a bit better since (as of right now, he's sleeping because we were up late taking care of our kitten, who obtained a head injury earlier that evening).

And thanks! (: I worked on making it look just right for about two hours.

 

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